A hero is an ordinary individual who finds
the strength to preserve and endure despite of overwhelming obstacles.
Throughout history, women have always aimed for a recognized place
in society. Guided by their own field of knowledge and expertise,
women like Leyla Zana, Zakia Alkan, Perwin Babaker and Habsankhani
Naqib to name a few, have played a significant role in maintaining
the Kurdish identity and the progress that has been made thus far.
Their efforts have helped redefine, consolidate and differentiate
the nature of women's place within the Kurdish society from that
of the Middle East. However, despite such progress, numerous inequalities
still exist within our society and are perhaps surfacing the most
among communities in United States. Many call for progress and
reform, however; theories of progress may be enshrined in new laws
but are only valid if they are experienced in the life of the people,
young women in particular. In order to eradicate such inequalities
and continue our struggle for a free Kurdistan, it is imperative
that today’s young women become active especially those residing
in the United States with the aid of their families and the community.
It is unfortunate that most Kurdish families, adjusting to the
Western life style, are facing many challenges due to cultural
and language barriers. Although some tend to view these problems
marginal compared to the difficulties throughout Kurdistan, they
still have very dramatic effects. One of the main concerns facing
our community today is the role of young women and their involvement
in the Kurdish society.
While being abroad has provided us with many
opportunities, it has also lead to disintegration and obstacles
among our youth that
might have not been there had we been in Kurdistan. However, as
Gandhi stated: “In every great cause, it is not the number
of fighters that counts, but it is the quality of which they are
made that becomes the deciding factor.” While, without a
doubt, the size of our Kurdish communities plays a role, it should
not be the determining factor for one’s involvement with
the Kurdish culture. It is important for today’s young women
generation to hold a sense of belonging to their Kurdish communities
and desire to be part of the process for the wanted change.
Courage and confidence in one’s personal
beliefs is the corner stones of personal initiative; an initiative
to aid the
communities, starting with their own families. Such an example
of personal courage and determination comes from a young Kurdish
girl living in America who was not allowed to attend college upon
graduating from high school. However, she did not let it stand
in her way of obtaining an education. She began to take online
courses through her local community college and is now in her third
year. Such determination and motivation is an inspiration for young
women everywhere to take advantage of the resources available to
them and find an alternate and positive route of achieving their
dreams rather than giving up. Education is the light that guides
through the future and it is imperative for young Kurdish women
to be independent and educated so that they may contribute to the
progress of Kurdistan.
In addition, it is up to today’s young
women to educate their parents, especially the mothers, about
life in United States
and create a sense of belonging. Such understanding will advance
the Kurdish community via making them more aware of the resources
available to them and bridging the gap that might exist with non-Kurdish
communities. It is important for young women to be motivated and
reach their potential. They must keep in mind that promoting their
status and involvement in the Kurdish society can only be achieved
by a strong determination and personal efforts to eliminate traditional
prejudices through education. The dissemination of such valuable
information is critical so that Kurdish women may fully develop
their intellectual and physical capacities and participate actively
in the decision-making process related to their political, economic
and social development in the Kurdish societies.
http://www.kurdmedia.com/articles.asp?id=12524
Sheinei
Saleem is an active member and Treasurer of the Kurdish American
Youth Organization. If you'd like to contact her, please e-mail her
at
sheinei@kurdyouth.org. |